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neck 1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/sean-neck-side-view.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sean neck side view</image:title><image:caption>Sean wore a neck brace for 10 months. Here he is in Ireland, 10/12.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/family-in-ireland-e1389488316175.jpg</image:loc><image:caption>Sean wore a neck brace for ten months.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/sean-in-neck-brace-e1389487204654.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sean in neck brace</image:title><image:caption>Sean in Ireland, 10/12, with neck brace.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2020-04-20T20:34:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2020/04/20/home-haircut-husband-trusts-me-with-clippers/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/half-hair.jpg</image:loc><image:title>half hair</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/done-hair-e1587411076936.jpg</image:loc><image:title>done hair</image:title><image:caption>Not bad! He'd tell me or would have buzzed it off!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/sean-long-hair.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sean long hair</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/clippers.jpg</image:loc><image:title>clippers</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/studying-clipper-kit.jpg</image:loc><image:title>studying clipper kit</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2021-03-10T23:43:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2020/04/20/turning-double-nickels-party-like-a-couple-of-ten-year-olds/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/img_1672-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1672 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/img_1560-5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1560 5</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/img_1674-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1674 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/img_1675-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1675 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/img_1673.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1673</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/img_3983-preview-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_3983-preview 2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2020-04-20T17:56:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2020/04/01/rounding-the-bases/</loc><lastmod>2020-04-19T15:24:06+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2019/02/25/starting-my-new-year-54-i-promise-to-listen-to-my-inner-child-a-lot-more/</loc><lastmod>2019-03-02T15:26:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/about/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/happy-hula-girl.jpg</image:loc><image:title>happy hula girl</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/tan-ten3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tan Ten</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/tan-ten2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>God's "Baby Girl", age 10</image:title><image:caption>In 5th grade, I found respite in going to school. Can I be "God's baby girl" at this stage of my life?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/tan-ten1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tan Ten</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/tan-ten.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tan at Ten</image:title><image:caption>At ten, we seem to have more confidence to be authentic.  Express ourselves more freely before dreaded puberty and peer pressure censors us. I began writing in fourth and fifth grade and my teachers would read some of our selections to the class. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/0051.jpg</image:loc><image:title>005</image:title><image:caption>At age 10, children often have the greatest confidence to be their authentic selves before the havoc of puberty and peer pressure sets in.  The are more like to tell it like it is.  </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/005-e1347624208215.jpg</image:loc><image:caption>In the 5th grade, I found great respite going to school. Can I be "God's baby girl" at this stage of my life?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/008.jpg</image:loc><image:title>008</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2018-07-16T13:11:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2017/12/08/thoughts-on-immigrants-then-and-now-thanks-to-rags-an-american-musical/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/poster_poster_rags.jpg</image:loc><image:title>poster_Poster_RAGS</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-12-12T15:49:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2017/11/28/beware-trans-siberian-orchestra-christmas-show-turns-into-fiery-hell/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/21731822_1526044144130675_1388993704856493206_o.jpg</image:loc><image:title>21731822_1526044144130675_1388993704856493206_o</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2025-11-14T13:24:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2017/11/27/love-marriage/</loc><lastmod>2017-11-28T00:45:30+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2017/04/12/a-booksom-babe-goodbye-well-miss-you-diane/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/booksom-babes-pic.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Booksom Babes pic</image:title><image:caption>Booksom Babes bookclub, an October club meeting a few years ago. From left to right back row, Tanja, Jeanne, Ann, zombie statue, Theresa, Joan, Gracie Sue. Middle row left to right Jane, Diane. Front is Debbie.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2017-04-22T14:45:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2016/10/11/the-hardest-part-of-parenting-realizing-our-kids-are-only-on-loan-to-us/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/e-c-in-ireland.jpg</image:loc><image:title>e-c-in-ireland</image:title><image:caption>Chris 23, Erin 25, in Ireland 2016</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/danny.jpg</image:loc><image:title>danny</image:title><image:caption>Chris age 2, Erin age 4, with Daniel the Cockerspaniel "Danny"</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-10-13T15:00:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2016/08/01/tann-ya-tahn-ya-banana-bah-nah-nah/</loc><lastmod>2016-08-01T22:00:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2015/10/17/trick-o-treat-pick-up-truck-neighbor-from-my-childhood-evokes-harrowing-halloween-memory/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/22814truck.jpg</image:loc><image:title>22814truck</image:title><image:caption>Though this is not Tyron and it is day light in this photo, this is something like what my poor mother saw on Halloween Night in 1971 as she was bringing my sister and me Trick-o-Treating!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-18T15:05:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2015/09/24/shout-out-to-fellow-travelers-and-friends-we-made-in-ireland-this-weekend-18-sept-21-sept/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/odessa-e1443116185314.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Musician Friends in Ireland</image:title><image:caption>Last minute visit to Dublin to meet our musician friends! Left, Roisin Rua, lead vocalist of The Evolution Project.ie, Sean, Tanja, musicians Ronan Conroy and Lughaidh "Louie" O Broin (we met in 2012). Louie's wife Roisin and her band The Evolution Project (theevolution project.ie) just launched their album Outta the Blue.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/pals-e1443114686822.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Musician Friends in Ireland</image:title><image:caption>Last minute visit to Dublin to meet our musician friends! Left, Roisin Rua, lead vocalist of The Evolution Project.ie, Sean, Tanja, musicians Ronan Conroy and Lughaidh "Louie" O Broin (we met in 2012). Louie's wife Roisin and her band The Evolution Project (theevolution project.ie) just launched their album Outta the Blue.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-21T19:37:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2015/09/07/debit-card-debacle-charged-over-300-on-my-neighbors-plastic/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/identify-numbers-debit-card-2-1-800x800.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Credit card</image:title><image:caption>Check your name on your card!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-08T20:48:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2015/06/10/thankful-on-three-year-anniversary-of-husband-surviving-broken-neck/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_1953.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1953</image:title><image:caption>Broken neck healed. Gratefully living well three years after harrowing accident.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_1932.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1932</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_20141129_145556075_hdr.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_20141129_145556075_HDR</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-12T19:41:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2015/04/25/sometimes-all-i-need-is-my-dq-what-is-it-that-you-need/</loc><lastmod>2015-05-02T16:23:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2015/02/25/50-things-ive-come-to-know-in-50-years/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/wax-lips-d-m-t.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Wax lips d, m, t</image:title><image:caption>I know it is so important to have fun and laugh with good friends. Diane and Maureen (left, middle)  are part of my Desert Storm past ('90-'91). I love it that we still can pick up and don wax lips and moustaches when our paths cross!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-10T17:42:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2015/02/02/buddy-jesus-meme-gets-personal/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/tanja-meme.jpg</image:loc><image:title>tanja meme</image:title><image:caption>This came up when I searched my name in Meme.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-02-03T18:15:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2014/11/27/boo-to-the-who-they-blew-us-off-but-weve-met-other-stars-along-our-way/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/img_20141124_182553301.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_20141124_182553301</image:title><image:caption>Sean with his cousins Mary and Tessie in Ballinskelligs, Ring of Kerry, Ireland.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/img_2600.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2600</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T15:50:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2013/07/29/early-morning-at-russell-pond-park-in-new-hampshire/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/reflection-of-russell-pond1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>reflection-of-russell-pond</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T15:45:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2014/12/02/can-you-be-trusted-on-your-honor/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/img_2603.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2603</image:title><image:caption>Cliffs and sea on the Ring of Kerry</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/img_2590.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2590</image:title><image:caption>"A Stolen Ringbuoy--A Stolen Life" makes you think twice about vandalizing.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T15:35:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2012/09/12/whats-in-a-name/</loc><lastmod>2016-08-01T22:34:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2012/10/24/a-prayer-around-a-hole-in-deep-river-an-excerpt-from-raising-dad/</loc><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:46:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2012/12/14/all-for-a-toothbrush/</loc><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:45:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2013/01/24/where-do-you-think-we-go-when-we-die/</loc><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:44:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2013/02/08/do-you-have-a-recipe-that-has-made-someone-immortal-doughnuts-beryl-lougee/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/plate-of-donuts1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>plate-of-donuts</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/plate-of-donuts.jpg</image:loc><image:title>plate of donuts</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:43:06+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2013/02/22/ill-be-dipped-in-chocolate-thinking-about-my-all-time-favorite-job/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/ice-cream-cone.jpg</image:loc><image:title>There's Just No Substitute</image:title><image:caption>In life there are few perfect treats. This is one of them.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/20130225-141655.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20130225-141655.jpg</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:42:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2013/03/25/inappropriate-and-nearly-uncontrolable-laughter-strikes-again/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/cake.jpg</image:loc><image:title>cake</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:38:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2013/04/02/impromptu-family-sing-a-long-soothes-souls-more-than-spoken-words-ever-could/</loc><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:37:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2013/04/22/policemans-ball-our-22nd/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/ball-13.jpg</image:loc><image:title>ball 13</image:title><image:caption>At Policeman's Ball</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:35:31+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2013/08/12/angel-feather-at-my-womens-fire-circle/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/feather.jpg</image:loc><image:title>feather</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/20130812-105309.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20130812-105309.jpg</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:32:35+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2013/09/03/glassblown-ornament-reminds-me-of-my-marriage-2/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/20130905-105302.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20130905-105302.jpg</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/glass-2-e1390493492341.jpg</image:loc><image:title>glass 2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:31:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2014/01/29/who-keeps-messaging-me-an-angel-departed-loved-one-god/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/angel.jpg</image:loc><image:title>angel</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/hope-is-power.jpg</image:loc><image:title>hope is power</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/hope-sign.jpg</image:loc><image:title>hope sign</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/esperanza.jpg</image:loc><image:title>esperanza</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:27:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2014/01/30/be-still-and-know-that-i-am-god-christianityworks/</loc><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:26:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2014/09/15/how-to-thank-my-retiring-therapistkenny-loggins-lyrics-beat-out-the-best-greeting-cards/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/happy-hula-girl.jpg</image:loc><image:title>happy hula girl</image:title><image:caption>"I'm Alright!"I gave this photo to my therapist on her retirement as a celebration of our work together over that past four plus years. </image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:25:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2014/09/29/lightning-strikes-three-times-shirley-temple-foreignor-then-the-who/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/shtempalbum.jpg</image:loc><image:title>shtempalbum</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1951.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1951</image:title><image:caption>The Who Sell Out, another "lightning strike" in our quest for specific records.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1950.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1950</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:23:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2014/10/13/politically-incorrect-girl-scout-sounds-of-the-70sdid-we-have-a-clue/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/oval_kayla-1970s-junior-girl-scout-doll.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1970's Junior Girl Scout Doll</image:title><image:caption>Girl scouts sang different songs at camp than girls today---thank goodness!
</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2023-08-01T04:40:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2014/10/27/macncheese-porn-nevermind-jeans-now-even-comfort-foods-are-sexed-up/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/subadco-articlelarge.jpg</image:loc><image:title>subAdco-articleLarge</image:title><image:caption>New macaroni and cheese "offspring" emerge from behind a toaster where their "parents" just hid behind and "procreated". Even our comfort foods are sexed up to sell!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:18:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2014/11/03/finding-evidence-theres-still-hope-for-the-world-speak-up-speak-life/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/wonderful-world.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Hands touching a globe</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-05T14:17:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/world-travel/florida/</loc><lastmod>2014-12-05T01:18:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/world-travel/new-hampshire/</loc><lastmod>2014-12-05T01:18:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/world-travel/ireland/</loc><lastmod>2014-12-05T01:17:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/world-travel/travel/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/foto-us-relatives-sean-tania-045.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Foto US relatives Sean &amp; Tania 045</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/7777.jpg</image:loc><image:title>7777</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/25th-torte.jpg</image:loc><image:title>25th torte</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>4</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/44.jpg</image:loc><image:title>44</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-04T23:47:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/world-travel/</loc><lastmod>2014-12-04T23:46:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/world-travel/travel/anniversary-trip-videos-italy-2013/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/bothflag.jpg</image:loc><image:title>bothflag</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-01-13T16:39:08+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2012/09/19/the-great-flying-swings-by-tanja-buzzi-age-10-mr-halls-5th-grade-class-1975/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/tan-ten1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tan at Ten</image:title><image:caption>My fifth grade teacher, Lance Hall encouraged our class to write stories.  He would then read them to the class. Though my home life was very stressful, school was a haven to me.  At age ten, before puberty and peer pressure set in, I was creative and comfortable with myself.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-01-12T02:39:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2012/09/24/bearded-lady/</loc><lastmod>2014-01-12T02:38:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2012/09/25/spider/</loc><lastmod>2014-01-12T02:37:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2012/09/28/swinging-singers/</loc><lastmod>2014-01-12T02:36:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2012/10/04/mommas-with-middle-aged-children/</loc><lastmod>2014-01-12T02:35:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2012/10/05/did-i-just-say-that-blooper-alert/</loc><lastmod>2014-01-12T02:34:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2012/10/16/moriartys-in-an-irish-bar-fight/</loc><lastmod>2014-01-12T02:33:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2012/10/29/shepherdess/</loc><lastmod>2014-01-12T02:32:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2012/12/29/what-is-the-best-thing-you-did-for-yourself-in-2012/</loc><lastmod>2014-01-12T02:27:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2013/01/25/whered-you-get-those-eyes/</loc><lastmod>2014-01-12T02:24:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2013/04/09/marital-advice-in-a-funeral-line/</loc><lastmod>2014-01-12T02:20:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/2013/10/15/venn-diagram-and-keeping-a-stiff-upper-beak-as-first-birdy-flies/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/erin-and-justin-at-new-apt.jpg</image:loc><image:title>erin and justin at new apt</image:title><image:caption>Erin at her new apartment in Vermont, with Justin.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://tan-jam.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/100_1265.jpg</image:loc><image:title>100_1265</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-01-12T00:34:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/posts/</loc><lastmod>2013-12-20T22:24:18+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/books-and-resources-for-adult-children-of-alcoholics-mentally-ill-and-homeless-parents/</loc><lastmod>2013-08-12T15:51:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/contact-tanja/</loc><lastmod>2013-04-29T16:17:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com/flash-fiction-very-short-stories/</loc><lastmod>2012-09-25T20:34:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>weekly</changefreq><priority>0.6</priority></url><url><loc>https://tan-jam.com</loc><changefreq>daily</changefreq><priority>1.0</priority><lastmod>2025-11-14T13:24:16+00:00</lastmod></url></urlset>
